The 4 Commitments
Ever
wonder what makes for effective communication?
Good communication, the kind that gets results and also builds relationships,
is about more than just “intentions” and “techniques”. It is based
on a set of underlying attitudes and approaches that are the foundation
of Effective Communication.
These
underlying principles are so powerful that applying them, even
in the absence of any other advanced skills, dramatically improves
conversations and relationships. It also helps prevent some of
the communication mistakes that can cause hurt and undermine relationships.
In
“The Four Commitments” you will learn four such key principles,
and the basic skills that derive directly from them. Each one
consists of a “Do” and a “Don’t”. Scroll down for the outline.
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Details: 60 minutes; presentation
only.
Last
10 minutes discuss “next steps”.
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You
Receive:
- User-friendly handout that includes every point and every quote
mentioned in the seminar,
so that you can minimize your writing time and focus
on absorbing
-
Recording of the seminar, so you can review it as often as you wish.
-
Financial credit towards other Communicating with Compassion courses.
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Course Outline:
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For
a Schedule of upcoming courses, and to Register, click
here.
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The
Four Commitments
1.
Commitment One: Listen
first
Do:
“Seek first to understand.”
Don’t: “Rush to offer solutions.”
2.
Commitment Two: Affirm and
Validate
Do:
Acknowledge the message.
Don’t: “Discount” or speak much about yourself.
3.
Commitment Three: Respond
with grace
Do:
Be clean of shame and blame.
Don’t: Judge people based on situations they find themselves in.
4.
Commitment Four: Keep Perspective
Do:
Remember that there is so much we don’t know--about the person,
and about life.
Don’t: Insist on your advice being followed.
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How
To Register:
For
a Schedule of upcoming courses, and to Register, click
here.